Here is a list of banter lines. You don’t need to memorize the entire list in order to get girls, having a few of these in your back pocket will certainly come in handy. Take only one or two at a time, use it often and make it yours. Once you get good with a particular line, move on to the next one. In a relatively short period of time, you will find that you can build a lot of attraction really quick using nothing but banter lines. Make sure to remember that once you begin to connect with a girl and have a decent amount of rapport, you should back off with some of the attraction stuff and go for a sustainable lower energy vibe. This is one of the more potent ways to attract women, but it will backfire later on down the road if she can’t connect with you on a deeper level (that is, unless she is a drunk party girl.)
“Seriously if you don’t stop hitting on me, I’m getting a restraining order”
“It’s OK, you can kiss me”
“You (guys) are trouble! I can tell just looking at you”
“You seem safe”
“I saw you checking me out, I figured if I didn’t come over and say something, you might follow me home later”
“Is that your best pick up line?”
“OK, we can be friends, but I don’t want you bothering me for sex later on”
“Your hair looks kinda nice”
“She’s the feisty one out of the bunch, I can tell these things”
“Don’t say anything, you’re cute, you’ll mess it up”
“You’re so cute! I’m gonna put you in my pocket and take you home with me. Wait, are you housebroken? My roommate will kill me if you pee on the floor”
“Are you threatening me?”
“I don’t care”
“Quit looking at me! Quit looking at me! Quit looking at me! Hey you… Quit looking at me!”
While a lot of these banter lines may be context dependent, some of them will have an even better effect when they are simply thrown into the conversation at random times. Also be aware that you can over do things and put too much energy into the delivery and creep girls out. This is why its important to use the same line over and over again so you can learn to calibrate. The same line used by two different people can have different results as well. Larger guys may need to tone down the energy level of sarcastic lines as it can be easy for a girl to interpret your energy as threatening.
These lines can be fun to use. They are also good to play around with when you find the conversation feels like work. Banter is great for adding a fun element and building attraction, this also paves the way for transitioning to the comfort stage once you see that the woman is committed to the interaction. While these lines create fun conversations, keep in mind that if you use this type of communication too often, even with a playful and sarcastic tone, it will have the opposite effect of attraction and simply look like narcissistic behavior. The best banter lines appear to be spontaneous and are often completely unexpected.
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